Wednesday, December 14, 2011

*I Believe*


Do you remember the feeling of Christmas from when you were a child and everything seemed possible. Santa Claus existed and even the North Pole was real.  The joy this time of year would bring. The excitement on Christmas Eve when you were so awake with anticipation, you didn't think you would ever fall asleep. The expectation you felt in the morning when you woke up and realized it was finally here!

The joy and excitement of opening your gifts and rummaging through your stocking.  The warmth of spending this time with your family and sharing the experience year after year.

Of course, these are merely words and don't even come close, for me at least, to expressing the actual flood of emotions you feel during the Christmas season.

Then we grow up and lose a little of that feeling in becoming "Santa".  We get more wrapped up in what to buy for whom and forget to slow down and take it all in. The sights, smells and sounds of this time of year. To be reminded of what Christmas used to make us feel as children.

The joy we feel as adults is still there, though it is not as uninhibited as when we were young.  It also comes from a different side of Christmas. Giving.  The joy of watching others open the gifts that you thoughtfully picked out specifically for each of them. Especially the gifts we give to the children in our lives. We get to see a glimse of that feeling in their eyes when we watch them open their gifts with faces full of sheer happiness.

Of course there is yet another side to Christmas all together. Helping to make a less fortunate person or family have that joyful experience on the holidays when they normally wouldn't be able to.  Whether it is donating your time to a soup kitchen or donating toys to an organization. You get a warm spot in your heart knowing that they will have unexpected holiday cheer brought to them.  That is also a wonderful feeling.

I cannot take all of this into consideration without saying that I still believe that Santa Claus does exist.  He may not be a jolly old man in a red furry suit with a big white beard. But this "Santa" we all truly believed in as children is the spirit of Christmas. He is the joy of giving. He is the wealth of sharing. He is the love we spread to family, friends and even strangers.

I believe that a little piece of Santa is inside of each and every one of us.  As adults we become the spirit of Christmas. We spread the same joy and love that we once received as children from our Santa Claus. Santa is in every gift you give, every smile you share,  every kind word you utter.  That donation made to the less fortunate, in the hopes of bring them cheer during a rough time.

The joy you spread when you give without the expectation of what you will receive.  That is the spirit of Christmas.

Christmas is not about what you get out of it… it is about what you give.  Giving does not necessarily mean material items or even the biggest price tag.  Giving of your heart and of yourself to make someones day more enjoyable.  To show someone that, even though they are going through a roungh time, someone cares about them.

The meaning of Christmas is the gift of Joy, Cheer, Family and Love.

Spread some "Santa" to the ones you love.

Spread some to those who are in need of it.

Spread joy to everyone, now and all throughout the year.

Wishing you and yours a very Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Choice

Everyone is battling something in this life. It is not a competition to see who has it the worst. 
We all fall down, but it's about what you do after the fall. That's what counts. 
If you choose to stay down, then you deal with the consequences. 
If you choose to get up, then learn your lesson & move on. 
Either way, there is always a choice.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Forgiveness


I found this quote today and it hit home.

Holding onto the feeling of resentment is punishing no one but yourself.

But learning to forgive... fully and honestly forgive; and let go is a refreshing thought and a new any day resolution to add to my list.


Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I will...

I will ALWAYS SMILE through it. 
I will come out the other side having LEARNED something from EVERY experience.
I will CHERISH all the GOOD I possess. 
I will be GRATEFUL for EVERYTHING I am given. 
I will enjoy EVERY BREATHE, I am BLESSED enough to take. 
It's my LIFE, I'm going to LIVE IT!

Monday, November 7, 2011

The Any Day Resolution

I propose the institution of the "Any Day Resolution"

I resolve:  To make positive changes on a regular basis throughout my life.


Why only make a new year's resolution?  When you can start your positive changes today and every day.

We may not be able to change the world alone or in a single day... but setting the example of positivity and executing good habits more than once a year... you could give others the inspiration they need to make those positive changes and who knows where it could go from there.

Pay it forward...

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Random Thoughts

It's easy to forget what others have done for you in the past.

Don't resent someone for saying no, when you should be thankful for all the times they have already said Yes.



Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Funny how things change...

As my 32nd Birthday approaches I've been thinking a lot lately about how my life's perspective has changed from my 20 Something years to my 30 Something years...

I find it interesting how much some things have changed...

In my twenties I would party until 5am; Now I wake up at 5am to go to the gym before work

In my twenties my night started around 10pm; Now I am crashing or passed out and in bed by 11pm

In my twenties I would worry if I skipped my monthly visit from Aunt Flo; Now I hope and pray that it means I will be a mother

In my twenties I could practically eat and drink anything I wanted and not gain an ounce; Now I have a glass of soda and gain 5 pounds

In my twenties I was all wrapped up in the celebrity gossip; Now I wish the majority of it would just go away

In my twenties I would listen to rumors and on occasion spread them; Now I never want to hurt other people's feelings, because I don't like mine hurt

In my twenties I would say what I was thinking before I thought about it; Now I pick my battles very carefully

Just a small list off the top of my head. I am sure there are many more things that have changed about myself and my life.

I just thought it would be funny to share how adulthood changes people in the strangest of ways and most of the time you don't even notice when it happens.

Feel free to share some of your own... :-)