Tuesday, October 18, 2011

And I Quote


This life is what you make it.  Not matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth.  But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up.  Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go.  The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends.  Don't let go of them.  Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world.  As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too.  And babe, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate.  You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything.  Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything.  Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.” - Marylin Monroe

Monday, September 26, 2011

Truth

YOU are the only one that can change the things YOU are unhappy with...

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Viva La Vito

Sometimes the humanity and kindness is those around you can really surprise and move you.

My brother-in-law has an Italian Mastiff named Vito. He is a BIG sweetheart.

He recently tore his ACL in his hind leg, leaving him in pain 24/7 and forcing my brother-in-law to make the decision to spend upwards of $4000 between surgery and physical therapy/recovery or have to put his dog down.

A little back story on my brother-in-law's last dog... His sister "rescued" a 4 to 5 week old puppy that was going to be abandoned. My brother-in-law adopted the responsibility of the dog and therefore it was his dog. This dog grew up loved by all of us and we became part of his "pack". Some where along the line the dog developed some aggression problems for ANYONE outside of his "pack". So pretty much anyone outside of the family who entered the house was in danger of this dog.

The family tired a few professional dog trainers to no avail. Eventually they were put in the position to either put this dog, with trust issues, into a no-kill shelter to live out his whole life in isolation feeling abandoned by the only "pack" he knew and to never have physical contact from a person. The alternative they decided was much more kind to the dog and they decided to put him down. A VERY hard decision for them to come to. The day they Euthanized the dog, while he was under heavy sedation, he still tried to go after the doctor that entered the room. Solidifying that they had made the right decision, no matter how hard it was on them.

Now, Vito is my brother-in-laws first dog since then. Vito is my brother-in-laws shadow. They dog is hyper aware of him and where he goes. It is like they were meant to find each other.

My brother-in-law is in his mid 20's and just moved back home. When my husband and I found out how much the surgery would cost him, my husband came up with the idea to try to collect some donations from friends and family. Whatever they could spare, be it $1, $10, $50, etc. Facebook seemed to be the best way to communicate the situation to everyone at the same time and still be able to keep it a secret from my brother-in-law.

We created a group named Viva La Vito and sent out invitations to all of the friends and family on there. Explained what was going on and how we needed their help. None of us wanted to see him have to loose another pet, especially when there is a resolution in this case.

We expected to collect a small amount of money to lessen the financial burden placed on our brother's shoulders. What we have received has been amazing and generous.

As of today I believe we have over $700 to give to our Brother for his Dog.

His Birthday is this Saturday and we are going to put all the donations into a card with everyone's name signed in it and give it to him.

I know he will appreciate it all very much.

It's very touching to see how may people came together to help him out. I am in awe.

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Truth

Friendship isn't measured by words.

It's trust, honesty, loyalty, laughter, forgiveness, love & memories.

And it lasts a lifetime.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Epic Thought of the Day

There is no recipe for instant and continuous HAPPINESS.

You CREATE your own;

It’s not free of effort or easy to achieve.

That’s what makes you CHERISH it all the more.

HAPPINESS Begins And Ends With YOU.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Epic Thought of the Day

Perhaps the greatest judge of one’s character is what others say of them; rather then what they say of themselves.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Epic Thought of the Day

In life, you get what you give.

Beware of what you put out into the world, because it can & will come back at you ten fold.

It's up to you whether that is a good thing or not.